Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Toxic People - Boundaries Needed
We all have them, people that we run from when we see their names light up on our phones. These are the folks where NOTHING ever goes right in their world! Whether they are our friends, relatives or co-workers everything in us says "run" "hide" "leave me alone" the minute they contact us. How to cope? Boundaries can be your friend, and you don't have to be rude to be firm. If you do pick up the phone, calmly explain that you are very busy at the moment and although you would love to chat you really don't have the time. If that doesn't work, send them an email that says, "got your message," was thinking of you, but couldn't talk due to family and work obligations. Sometimes it is o.k. to just be "unavailable." We are all so connected what with our iphones, androids, etc....Do you really need to know that your friend is at the bank this VERY INSTANT? Take a deep breath, relax, and as they say: "Keep calm & Carry On." Use a little psychic self defense, and take a bath in Epsom Salts to get the negative stuff off of you! Smudge with white sage! Light a white candle! Get out in the sunlight! Deep Breaths!
I am am an evidential Psychic/Medium with over 37 years of experience helping people to connect with their deceased love ones by giving messages of love and hope. I also can consult both a regular deck and the Tarot, and will often incorporate palmistry and/or analyzing of your handwriting in order to give you the clarity you deserve to make the decisions you need to make everyday!