Sunday, September 9, 2012

Getting rid of the old to make room for the new!

I am writing this post because I have spent many hours with tears in my eyes working through the process of getting rid of the old to make room for the new. It seems like yesterday that I moved from Colorado back to Connecticut with a tiny baby girl over my shoulder, a divorce decree, (with the ink barely dry), in my hands, and a depression so dark and so deep that I wasn't sure that I would survive it at the time. The psychological experts say that childbirth, job loss, divorce, death (both my dogs passed on), and moving are some of the most stressful events that anyone can go through in their lifetime. I did them ALL in one year - 2001. I refer to it as my "not so good" year. I am over it now! Time to move on!

 Many of you who have move can appreciate what I am referring to when I say that it is not only physically exhausting, but it is emotionally draining as well. The positive side of it all is that it is a way to "free oneself" of unneeded and unwanted attachments to people and things! I have gotten rid of legal papers, old files, clothes, shoes, toys, books, and fortunately (or unfortunately) friendships that no longer were serving me and my growth as a spiritual being. Along with the giving away of "stuff," I have found HOPE, for the future, and a new positive outlook.

I would urge all of you to look through your "emotional closets, " as well as your physical surroundings to see if you are carrying burdens that you can now let go of forever. The moment is NOW - LIVE IN THE PRESENT. Hope for the Future, but seize the moment!

Those are my musings. Blessings. Karen


  1. Poignant, Karen. I remember going through my divorce from a Navy pilot and driving cross-country from Mississippi to New Jersey with my very good friend, also named Karen. She had flown down from NY state so I would not have to drive 1300 miles alone. There were tears of sadness and joy on that trip. Not only did I box up a life after divorce, I had to readjust to civilian life as a single woman. All my connections had revolved around the Navy. The freedom was both frightening and exhilarating. I imagine your feeling some of that now, as you let the emotions flow- cleansing your spirit and creating space for all that the future holds. Grow...!

  2. I have been looking for some sites that feature free online psychics and I stumbled across your blog. Anyway, still glad I came across here. Your article interests me. And I truly believe, seize each moment and live with the present for you not to regret in the future.