How does mediumship work?

Many of you have asked how I am able to "hear"  those who have passed on. To be honest, it has become a process of learning how to communicate and receive answers. I knew that I was receiving messages thru the cards and so I knew that the Tarot could provide a way for people who had passed over to communicate. The dead communicate telepathically and with symbols primarily. Flowers can mean an anniversary or Birthday that needs to be acknowledged. Pains within my own body can tell me how someone died, or what discomfort that they experienced before they passed on. Once I have acknowledged the pain as not being my own, it will disappear! Sometimes, your friends and relatives on the other side want to say that they are sorry for misunderstandings within your relationships as they have a new perspective after a life review. At other times, they have attended your wedding or party and want you to know they were there. They will give in detail who walked you down the isle, or how the venue looked for the anniversary celebration. The dead live on....Almost all of them will tell me how they died, and all of them attend their funerals mostly to comfort you. If you empty your mind, and sit quietly you can speak with the dead as well. Ask for a message from someone you want to contact, don't judge the information that come thru. Write it down, and go back to it later to see if if makes sense to you. Keep practicing. Mediumship is a process. Love is the connection. Namaste. Karen