Monday, November 8, 2010

Crazy Little Thing Called Love

As a professional psychic, I would say a good 80% of readings deal with some type of relationship issue whether it be lover, family, or work.   I also see just about every variation on love triangles that can be imagined.  Many people think that just because they meet someone in an unusual way, they are "meant" to be together.  The movie "fatal attraction" has nothing on some of the life stories I hear.  Love can indeed make people crazy, or if not crazy at least not in their right mind.  It is important to ask yourself if the actions of the person that you are in the relationship with are loving.  If the person says that they are going to call, and then they don't.....that's not love.  If you are planning on going out for the evening and the person does not show up, or call to reschedule.....that's not love.  If the person lies to you.....that's not love. If the person blames you for their bad behavior, or always makes it somehow your fault....that's not love.  There are some married couples that put their marriage up on a shelf to whither and die.  They never say a kind word, go out of their way, or show compassion for their spouse.....that's not love.  If you are in a love relationship for money, it is a gilded cage of your own making.  Some justify affairs because they get no attention from their spouse.....that's not love.  Happiness cannot live where deceit dwells.

 Find your true love, and love deeply but as Kahil Gibran wrote:
On Marriage
 Kahlil Gibran
You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.

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